What time should I arrive?

4:45pm. Show starts at 5:00pm.

If you're late, you'll have to wait to come in until everyone has walked down the aisle. The flower girl and ring bearers are dawdlers, so we highly recommend planning accordingly unless you are cool with a long wait.

Will the ceremony and reception be at the same venue?

Skipped the Travel & Stay page, didn't we? But yes, one venue.

Is the ceremony indoors or outdoors?

Indoors because we didn't have enough data on the effectiveness of paying an Etsy witch for good outdoor ceremony weather.

Where is the venue?

Here, damn.

Will there be shuttle service at the end of the night?

Two shuttle runs back to the hotel:

  • First at 10pm
  • Second at 11:30pm for the cool people, plus a bar stop for the exceptionally cool people who want to keep the party going
Is there parking at the venue?

If you consider free valet parking, then yes, yes there is.

Is there a hotel room block?

We've got the whopping ten of you asking covered! Details here.

What is the dress code?

Black tie optional.

Genuine emphasis on the optional. Not expecting tuxes and ball gowns. More the dark suits, nice dresses vibe.

TLDR: dress up, look nice, plz & thank you.

When is the RSVP deadline?

August 15 unless you want an awkward text from us.

Can I bring my kids?

September 26, 2026 has actually officially been declared (by us) mom and dad's night out. So, uh, no, sorry, you legally cannot.

Exception: parents of the flower girl and ring bearers. They have a job to do.

Can I bring a plus one?

Those little RSVP robots that find your invitation were actually set up to tell you exactly what you are allowed to do so that we don't have to answer this question 🤗.

What if I need to change my RSVP after submitting?

Once you get your story straight, you can make updates through the same RSVP prompts as long as it's before August 15.

Will there be an open bar?

Is the Pope Catholic?

Will there be dinner?

Well that depends... did you select your meal preference? The caterers need to know what to make you.

Is anyone reading this?

That's a question for you, not us, silly. But since you're here, let's play a game.